You are probably invited if...

1.  You found the topics discussed in my blogs and threads interesting and participated in them. 

2.  You can and want to have a conversation, possibly disagreeing with other posters, but not flaming the thread or doing the forum equivalents of shouting, stamping your feet or crying "No you!" or "Neener neener" over and over again.

3.  You are able and willing and of age to participate in adult-content discussions.  

4.  You won't respond to each and every adult-content post with the forum equivalent of  "Yes dear," "You're all going to hell" or clutching your pearls.

5.  You are willing and able to try to post to the post a little more often than posting to the poster and the poster's reputation on other forums.

6.  Your version of wit is not adolescent WoW and 4chan l33tspeak gamer language.

7.  You are not a griefer or a troll.

8.  You can be trusted.  You did not join the forum to chase down a member or enact some kind of forum feud grudge revenge plan or get a big scoop.

9.  You get the humor of  my "Tongue-in-Cheek Rules for Forum Posters" thread.

10.  You can laugh and think, post thoughtfully, have some amount of impulse control, aren't freaked out or frozen by controversial topics and don't make conversation and communication near impossible or post things that read like you are crying, stamping your feet, howling into the wind and running home to mommy at the first sign of disagreement.

11.  You're an adult.

12.  This forum host software (YUKU) won't drive you nuts.

13.  And since this is my forum, then you are invited if you want to post with me and actually enjoy posting with me.  And Pep...



ETA:  CAC members are asked...

1.  to be over 18 years of age
2.  to identify themselves by commonly-known name (forum handle or virtual world avatar name, for example)
3.  to have only one CAC account (no alts)
4.  to visit the site openly (no invisible-status lurking)
5.  to self-moderate
6.  to respect the relative privacy of CAC and its members
7.  to roll with the quirks of a free-forum hosting site like YUKU

ETA:

8.  to understand that I will prune and close unused accounts.


What happens on CAC, stays on CAC.